Single play can be enjoyable (like reallynice), however, sex toys that are designed for couples can elevate the experience to another level. There’s bound to a sex tool that will suit both you and your partner, whether you like vibrators, dildos , buttplugs, Gspot (or even P-spot), massagers, or any other type of sex toys. You and your partner may be stuck in a sex rut, or you might not. It can be fun to add a new dimension to the mix.
Megan Harrison is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT), at Couples Candy. For some couples, a simple sex toy can be enough to spark the passion they have been searching for. Others may find sex toys a way to make their sexual fantasies come true.
It takes some research to find the right vibrating sex toys for you and your partner. It all depends on your individual preferences and comfort level. It’s important to remember that communication is an essential aspect of any relationship. Before you assume that your partner will be okay with sex toys being added to the mix, make sure that you have spoken with them first.
Harrison says that open communication is crucial. Harrison says that if you are not clear about what you want, it can lead to you feeling uncomfortable, insecure, and even upset. Your intimate relationship will be enhanced if you are open-minded about your partner’s sexual preferences and needs, especially if it is reciprocated.
The Shopping Guide for Couples Play
Before you embark on a shopping spree, which I highly recommend, there are some things you need to know. These include price, material and lubricants.
Here are some tips from my favourite sexual health and wellbeing experts:
- Do your homework. There are thousands of sex toys on the market, including urethral and unicorn dildos. Do your research before you reach for your credit card. It’s not easy to navigate the sexy jungle. Dainis GRADERIS is a certified sex educator at SexualAlpha and relationship expert. You can discuss them with your partner to find out what sex toys appeal to you most. Toys that are more in your comfort zone can be used if you don’t want to overpower sensations.
- Shop with your partner. A shopping trip together can make an awkward situation easier. Bonus: You may have a great time shopping together. “Shopping for toys together is great because you and your partner can see all the options. If you visit a shop in person you can also try the different settings and options together,” states Sarah Brown. She’s a certified sex educator and has more than a decade’s experience. Online shopping can be transformed into a date night, complete with wine, food and the possibility of sex. Shopping online has many reviews and tips on how to use the products. It’s both an adventure in shopping and a way to enjoy future pleasure.
- Choose quality over quantity. It’s difficult to spend $100 on a single sex toy, when you can get many for $30 each. But please consider the material of the product before buying cheap and potentially dangerous toys. Harrison says that you should only purchase quality products online from trusted retailers like Lovehoney. All products that they carry will be safe for your body and come with a satisfaction guarantee. You can return the item if you are not satisfied with it, even if it has been used!
The Best Sex Toys For Couples
Adorime Silicone Vibrating Strapless Strapless Dildo
The Adorime Strapless Stap-On has an ergonomic design and nine powerful vibration patterns. You and your partner won’t have to worry about batteries because it is waterproof for shower play.
Graveris says that strapless strap-on Dildos are great for vagina-owning couples. “If you’re new to strap-on sex or don’t have strong pelvic muscles, I suggest strapping the toy into a reliable and comfortable harness like Spareparts Joque.” If you don’t have a harness, place the bulbous end in your body, hold it tight and then slip the dildo into the lady. The dildo is angled to delight and has a bullet vibe that will send your partner reeling.
Ohnut Ring Set 4 (Intimate Wearable For Painful Sex)
Although the Ohnut is not a sexy toy, it is an intimate wearable that can be used for sex. This little device saved my sex life. It works like this: The Ohnut is placed on your partner’s shaft, or dildo, and acts as a barrier. You can adjust the penetration depth. This device is intended for intercourse pain sufferers. This wearable is ideal for me because I have painful bladder syndrome and endometriosis.
There are four rings included in the Ohnut, but I prefer to use three. You can also use the Ohnut during foreplay. Simply lubricate your partner and slide the rings on. Then, stroke the rings upward and downward. The Ohnuts can only be used with lube. Use a water-based lube, not a silicone one! A silicone toy will be disintegrated by silicone lube.
CalExotics Original Accommodation
CalExotics Original Accommodator – what a name! It is basically a strap-on companion’s dildo. It is available in Natural or Black, and measures five inches long. “This face strap-on lets you explore new dimensions in penetration,” Tatyana Dyachenko (CEO and Founder of Peaches & Screams) said. It’s designed to be worn on the face so that you can penetrate while also stimulating the women’s clit. This toy is perfect for hands-free play.
Pure Love Portable Finger Vibrator
Pure Love Portable Finger Vibrator makes it easy to go on the move. The portable finger vibrator comes in neon purple or hot pink, and has a quiet but powerful mini-bullet motor. This is just what a couple needs to have some discreet, hot fun! You and your partner will be able to enjoy it again and again without batteries.
Start with something simple, such as a finger vibrator, if you are apprehensive about toys. Dyachenko says they are affordable and easy to use making them a great beginner’s toy. Once you become comfortable with them, you can add new toys to your collection. You can experiment to discover what your partner loves and dislikes. The only way to find out is to actually try them.
Satisfyer Love Triangle
The Satisfyer Love Triangle utilizes air-pulse technology to give you an amazing orgasm. I have one and it is now one of my three favorite toys. You can also control it via an app, which makes it ideal for playing with your partner. The Love Triangle, like most Satisfyer toys, is waterproof, stylish, USB-rechargeable and waterproof. The Love Triangle comes with 11 pressure wave intensities and 10 vibration settings. It also has a 15-year warranty and a fabric storage bag.
Zumio X Precision Clitoral Stimulator
Zumio uses rotation rather than vibration to provide pinpoint stimulation. The precision SpiroTip rotates in circles to aid users in orgasm. You can use the Zumio solo or with a partner. It comes in four models: Zumio X, Zumio (circular rotating pattern/more intense), Zumio X (elliptical turning pattern/higher intensity), Zumio X (circular rotating pattern/less intense), Zumio II (elliptical spinning/diffuse stimulation).
“It’s compact and quiet, but still packs a lot of power,” a Amazon reviewer wrote. “My wife and i were searching for something as powerful as the Hitachi Magic Wand. It didn’t get in our way. It is the first device to be able to replace it.”
We-Vibe-Rave App-Controlled Rechargeable G Spot Vibrator
The We-Vibe Rave, an app-controlled couple’s toy, has 10 preset vibration modes. It also allows users to create their own patterns via the WeConnect app. The We-Connect app lets you control your vibrator remotely from any location.
Graveris says that couples can explore their Vibrators together for both heterosexual and homosexual couples. The We-Vibe Rave vibrator, which can be controlled via an app, works to hit the G spot for vaginal owners and the P-spot if penis owners. Partner play sessions can include one or more of these toys. Your partner can control the different modes and vibrations via the buttons on the toy or the WeConnect app.
The We-Vibe can be used for stimulation of G-spot/P spots. Graveris suggests that you place the toy on the clit of your partner if it is too stiff to bend.
LELO Sona 2 Cruise
Although the LELO Sona 2 Cruise may not be a couple’s toy it can certainly be used as such. It’s true, I have used it several times as such. Warning: This toy can get very intense so make sure to warm up before you use it. This is true for all sex toys. This thing is seriously powerful. The LELO Sona 2 Cruise vibrator is a clitoral sucking vibrator. However, it can also be used on the penis or testicles. It will give your partner a new, tingly sensation!
All toys by LELO are stylishly packaged in a chic box. Every LELO toy comes with a satin storage bag. The Sona 2 Cruise can be recharged and features 12 pulsating settings. It is made from ultra-soft, safe silicone.
The Best Sex Toys For Long-Distance Couples
It can be hard to find new ways of being intimate with someone you are in a long distance relationship. If you feel your hand is going to give out from the manual stimulation, or if your partner is glancing at you during your sexy speeches you might want to invest in sex toys made for long-distance relationships.
“Long-distance relationships are not easy to maintain intimacy while apart. There are only so many times that sexting or phone sex works before they lose their excitement,” Nate, founder of Lasting The Distance, a community and website for long-distance relationship advice. They can’t duplicate the feeling of physical connection and connection that they feel. The best way to increase an LDR couple’s intimate and physical connection is with sex toys, particularly if they can be paired together.
Max 2 Masturbation Sleeve
The Max 2 male masturbator is innovative and realistic. The Max 2 can be controlled with the smartphone of either the user or their partner, regardless of distance. The Max 2 masturbation sleeves are quite advanced — users can control the vibration settings (low to medium, high), pulse, fireworks and earthquake via their smartphone, as well as the contraction settings (subtle. mild. deep). Even cooler is the fact that you can control the contraction settings via your smartphone. When paired with the Max 2 uses an air pump and a vibrating motor to simulate vaginal contractions. These contractions increase with Nora’s incision speed.
Kiiroo Onyx+ & Pearl 2 Couples Set
Like the Max 2 or Nora sets, the Pearl 2 and Onyx+ can be controlled by your partner. This set includes a setup guide, an authenticity card, and a USB charging cable.
Nate says, “From Kiiroo we recommend their Onyx+ & Pearl2 couples set.” The Onyx+ automatic stroker uses contracting rings instead of vibrating motors. These rings contract separately in up and down motions to emulate stroking/intercourse,” Nate continues. The speed at which the Pearl 2 was inserted determines the speed they contract. You can control the vibration modes of the Pearl 2 using the touchpad located on the Onyx+’s front.